By Douglas Carew
When a Cape Town southern suburbs husband realised that his pornography habit could become addictive and threaten his marriage, he changed his behaviour and offered to help other men trapped in a porn addiction.
The husband, who does not want to be named, said studies had found that pornography was as addictive as cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. For an Internet porn addict, a computer on his or her desk is the equivalent of a heroin addict having a drug dealer in the room with a ready supply of drugs.
So the man advises people who have developed an addiction to avoid Internet access if they find they are unable to resist the temptation to dial-up. Or move the computer to a communal room. Porn addicts are urged to change the route they travel home from work to avoid passing sex worker hangouts and adult shops selling hard-core pornographic material.
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'They have my cell number and give me a call instead of dialling up the Internet' They must remove all pornographic material from their home and are given the telephone number of an "accountability partner" - the equivalent of an alcoholic's "sponsor" - whom they can call and chat to when battling with temptation.
"They have my cell number and give me a call instead of dialling up the Internet," he said. He works with an organisation, Standing Together to Oppose Pornography, which is investigating the possibility of introducing an American computer programme, called Covenant Eyes, to South Africa because it would assist porn addicts.
The programme keeps track of websites visited by the porn addict and sends an email listing the sites to the accountability partner. "You can hack around most Internet access-control programmes but with this one, any attempt to hack around it is also recorded," he said. The man said his own interest in pornography had been sparked as a schoolboy.
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