Nepali women row against tide of discrimination

Batuli Bhujel rows to the shore of Phewa Lake in west Nepal. Working on the lake gives women independence in a country where they are often destined to a life of servitude.Picture: Reuters

Batuli Bhujel rows to the shore of Phewa Lake in west Nepal. Working on the lake gives women independence in a country where they are often destined to a life of servitude.Picture: Reuters

Published Feb 18, 2017

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Bhujel weaves deftly through the colourful wooden boats and

paddles into the shore of Phewa Lake in west Nepal, stepping

lightly out of her boat and steadying it as she helps her young

passengers off.

For years, Bhujel has paddled tourists out at dawn to be

rewarded with majestic views of the snow-capped Himalayas

reflected in the glassy waters.

But the 60-year-old wonders whether she will be able to do

this work much longer.

"Quite often my whole body hurts, so I just rest for a day

or two. If I had other sources of income, I would not have done

this job," she said, tugging the boat onto firm ground.

Bhujel is one of only about 30 women among 250 men who row

boats commercially on Phewa Lake, the leading attraction in

Pokhara, a resort town 150 km (90 miles) northwest of the Nepali

capital Kathmandu.

Working on the lake gives women like Bhujel some

independence in a country where women are often destined to a

life of servitude to their in-laws as well as denied the same

access as men to education, health and jobs.

Parents, particularly in rural areas, often see no benefit

in educating their daughters since they leave home to live with

their husbands and in-laws after marriage.

Although school attendance numbers in Nepal are improving,

only 66 percent of girls attend secondary school compared with

74 percent of boys, the UN children's agency UNICEF says.

Badmouthed

Like many others on the lake, Laxmi Nepali has never stepped

inside a classroom.

Married at the age of 15, she is among almost 40 percent of

girls in Nepal who are wed before their 18th birthday even

though the legal age for marriage in the country is 20.

After giving birth to her son at the age of 18, Nepali's

husband abandoned her. Shortly after, her parents took in their

grandson but disowned their daughter.

"Deep inside I'm heartbroken, but I don't feel anything,"

said Nepali, whose second marriage also ended, leaving her to

bring up a 10-year-old daughter alone.

The Phewa Boat Association, in charge of boat hire on Phewa

Lake and nearby Begnas Lake, allows anyone over 16 to row their

boats with no training, and offers equal pay to women and men.

Even though the association treats male and female workers

as equals, women sometimes face discrimination from their

colleagues and passengers.

Passengers - Nepali men, in particular - sometimes refuse to

get in a woman's boat.

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"The first thing they do is look at my face, and some get

annoyed and go to another boat, saying they don't want to go

with an old woman like me," said Bhujel. "It feels bad when

people say nasty things but what can you do?"

Nepali, who said she used to be "badmouthed" and verbally

abused over her job, recalled a group of boys who at first

refused to allow a woman to row them across the lake.

They eventually hired her, persuaded by others who advised,

"by appearance she looks like a woman, but she is like a man".

In 2015, she competed against male rowers in a boat race on

Begnas Lake and came second, winning 3,000 rupees ($28) in prize

money, about six times her daily earnings.

"I was given a lot of respect, even here," said Nepali, who

eschews the traditional saris or tunics and trousers that other

women wear for Western clothes.

Earnings

Unlike the other women on Phewa Lake who only row small

boats seating up to six people, Nepali operates the larger

twin-hulled boats, earning fractionally more than the others.

The average fee paid by tourists for an hour on a boat is

500 rupees ($5) with the skipper getting just 100 rupees.

Boatwomen hope to earn around 500 rupees a day, plus tips,

but sometimes they leave empty-handed.

When business is quiet, Bhujel, Nepali and the others may

only get a turn every two or three days.

Foreign tourists tend to be the meanest tippers, Bhujel

said.

"If they speak Nepali, we tell them we can't even get a cup

of tea with 10 or 20 rupees but foreigners don't understand us.

We don't understand them, so whatever little they give, we just

accept it," she said.

To boost their earnings, especially after the devastating

earthquake in 2015 led to a drop in tourist numbers, many of the

boatwomen seek casual work elsewhere including on construction

sites, breaking and carrying stones.

"I feel I have become like a man and even my heart has

become like that of a man," said Nepali, stabbing the lake with

her oar.

She sees education as the way out of poverty for her

daughter, but it is a constant battle to make ends meet.

State schools are free for all children but parents still

need to find money for uniforms and stationery. Sometimes they

are forced to pay annual admission and exam fees.

"I don't have any dreams for myself but I have dreams for my

daughter, to provide her with an education so that she does

well," Nepali said.

"My wish is that people look at her and say, no matter how I

am, I have raised my daughter well." 

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