Humiliated schoolgirl tries to kill herself

Published Jul 1, 2016

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Johannesburg - An 11-year-old tried to kill herself after allegedly being placed in a lower grade as punishment.

Allegations are that when the Grade 5 pupil at a private Catholic school in Johannesburg laughed in class, the teacher accused her of laughing at her and sent her to Grade 4.

The teacher also wrote a letter to the mother, saying her daughter had been put back a grade as she often misbehaved. Going back to Grade 5 would be dependent on her attitude.

When the girl arrived home, she took a concoction of pills and was in a hospital's intensive care unit for two days. Her enraged mother said her child’s punishment was not only inappropriate, but harsh.

“My daughter is at a developmental age, and embarrassing her like that would have knocked her self-esteem and self-worth.”

What made her even angrier was the principal’s response. She said the principal had told her that her daughter often misbehaved, and her suicide attempt was a way to deflect from her bad behaviour.

“She added salt to the injury by saying my child was an attention-seeker,” the mother added.

When, the Daily News's sister paper, The Star contacted the school, the principal was away.

The school’s head of department said there were always two sides to a story, but as a case was pending, she would not comment.

The Star also tried to get a comment from the Catholic Schools Office, but was told those authorised to comment were at a conference.

Educational psychologist Cara Blackie said this punishment was meant to humiliate and scare a child and her classmates, but did not result in the child learning from her mistake.

A child shouldn’t go to school with fear, she said.

Clinical psychologist Ketso Moorosi called the punishment cruel and damaging to a child.

“There are positive ways of punishing by making them sit closer to you in class or do extra work," she said.

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