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By Sadie Nicholas
Daily Mail

They are thin, plastic bracelets, the kind of innocent-looking friendship bands that schoolgirls like to wear.

Available in a variety of colours and cheap enough to be bought with pocket money, they have become an overnight sensation in primary school playgrounds across the country.

But it is their name that causes alarm bells to ring: Shag-bands. And they are worn by children far too young to truly understand what that crude term means.

'... different colours mean different things'

"I couldn't believe it when my son told me what the bands are called," says Donna Heaton, whose eight-year-old son, Sam, asked her for 20p to buy one from a schoolfriend at his state school last week.
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"I was horrified. He doesn't even know what that word means. Apparently, he and his friends at school are using the bands to facilitate kissing, a bit like kiss chase.

"But I've since discovered through other concerned parents that the different colours mean different things."

Alarmingly, these seemingly innocuous bracelets have been linked to gradations of sexual behaviour. Each colour denotes a physical act, from a hug or a kiss to showing body parts, to other acts that would make many adults blush.

If someone breaks the band off the wearer's wrist, the wearer supposedly has to offer the physical act that corresponds to the colour of the band.
'There are far worse things going on in playgrounds'

A gold band entitles anyone able to snap it off to all of the sexual favours represented by the other bands.

Accountant Anna Kite had no idea that the bands being worn by her seven-year-old daughter, Holly, meant anything until another concerned mother in her home town of Horley, Surrey, phoned her.

"According to her son, he'd snapped a pink one from a girl's wrist at school that day, which meant she was supposed to show him her naked chest.


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19 Weeks ago Abou wrote :

What every good commenter needs these days is a spell checker to ensure nobody laughs at the wrong moment, I think.

Thank you Tracy for dillusional :) *delusional

Aristotle was reputed to have quite a lot to say about young peoples morals and he was born in 382 BC. I think the new lot will probably make it to adulthood.


19 Weeks ago Tracy wrote :
Well for me the resolution to this problem is to stop the kids from wearing them to school, "Band the Bands".

When reading what Richie Hudson had to say about the fact that the kids dont know what the sexual meaning behind the wearing of the bands are, I think he is dillusional and probably just in it for the money. He doesnt care about the children.
19 Weeks ago Kuno wrote :
Thank you Abou for the countering the anti West idiot, just before we were all forced into some thinking via a prejudice.

The East taught us to think independantly and it is a mark of a enlightened society that the children can interact in this way. This is not to say it is neither right nor should it be encouraged but that the atmosphere and climate is good. The kids just need to be focussed in seeing that there is more. I feel it is more a reflection of an early years education system that needs to take note and adapt, quickly.
19 Weeks ago Abou ben Adhem wrote :
To the spluttering Anonymous who cant seem to type the words all, lewdness or structure, or even use correct grammar or punctuation, i would say, we are all human and none of us in a position to cast the first stone.
19 Weeks ago Anonymous wrote :
Alll of these acts of lewdsness displays the Western societyof feebleness and weakness, no belief stucture no culture, just savage drunken barbarians and colonialist pirates.
19 Weeks ago Gogo in Britain at the moment. wrote :
Youth appears to be a disaster just waiting to happen. Parents get a grip on your children, communicate, monitor and love them they need to be guided and nurtured for many years of their life.
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