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Rescued sailor Brett tells of life a year on

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Brett Archibald and his daughter, Zara, in front, son Jamie and wife Anita. His family is more important now since Brett Archibalds horror incident off the Sumatran coast just over a year ago. Archibald survived after he fell off his tour boat and was adrift in the ocean for 28 hours.

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A little over a year ago, former Durban man Brett Archibald knew he was dying and all he could hear was his wife’s voice.

He had fallen off his tour boat, Naga Laut, after taking ill during a sea trip from Panang to the Mentawai Islands, a popular surf spot, and was lost at sea in the Mentawai Straits, off the Sumatran coastline while holidaying with friends last April.Trying to stay alive in the ocean, Archibald, 50, a former Westville Boys High School pupil, had to fend off seagulls vying for his eyeballs, sharks circling him, fish that were eating his skin, severe sunburn and dehydration.

“One year and two weeks later I still recall every single second of those 28.5 hours. The thing that stands out the most is still the fact that I am alive,” said Archibald, who lives in Camps Bay, Cape Town.

Archibald made headlines around the world as an international search-and-rescue mission was launched to find the father of two young children.

He was finally rescued by Australian Tony “Doris” Eltherington, captain of the yacht Barrenjoey, who spotted him in the choppy waters.

The fact that he survived until his rescue, meant there was a higher purpose for him, said Archibald.

Apart from his business interests, he founded the Brett Archibald Foundation, which feeds and supports children at the Christel House South Africa in Cape Town, and supports the NSRI and the Llandudno Surf Lifesaving. His foundation and public speaking aim at telling people to believe in the impossible, to never give up and always to know that there is a higher being watching over you.

“The disappearance of the Malaysian Airline with approximately 270 people on board some eight weeks ago brought home to me how fragile life is,” said Archibald, who said his life had turned 180º since his return from Indonesia last year.

“My life has changed completely. I am no braver, no cleverer and no wiser. However, I am focused on what is more important to me than anything, and that is my family. My beautiful and amazing wife Anita, my fairy, ethereal, divine daughter Zara and my quirky, interesting and amazingly humorous son Jamie,” he said.

He did, however, have to go for counselling.

“I am very fortunate that I have been working with a life coach who has been a highly qualified psychologist since 1998, who I immediately went to see on my return from this horrific ordeal.

“By working with her and analysing my emotions, the disbelief that I am still alive, and facing each challenge every day, I do believe that I have reached a place where I can actually truly cope with the trauma that I underwent during that horrific ordeal.”

Many people have asked how he managed not to give up hope, and Archibald said the reason was his family.

“My most strong memories were of my beautiful and amazing wife who throughout the ordeal I heard shouting in my head, ‘Brettman, swim you bugger, swim. You are not leaving me a widow with two young children’,” he said.

He often reflects on why he was saved.

“When I came round in the ocean at 2.30am and saw my boat sailing into the distance, I knew I was dead.

“It took a while to calm down and start planning and making my choices. I only had two choices, one was to live, and the other to die. I chose to live.

“I knew my mates would come to find me as soon as they realised I was missing, and they did just that.

“After 12 hours of swimming, I saw my boat return and get to within 150 metres of me, only for them not to see me, but agonisingly, for me to watch them stare at me but not see me and after 15 minutes, sail away. That moment was worse than when I came round and found myself in the ocean some 12 hours prior to that.

“I had very little hope at that time, my only question was, how would I die?”

Archibald has been to Australia to meet up with his rescuers, and will be meeting with them again next month.

Archibald says he and his friends are planning a similar surf trip next year.

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