Teen sexting now ‘mundane’

Comment on this story


iol scitech pic text dating

.

One thing that does turn a man off when it comes to texting, however, is abbreviated text speak.

London - Boys and girls as young as 13 routinely swap explicit pictures of themselves, a disturbing investigation revealed this week.

Children are now so sexualised the practice has become “mundane and mainstream”. One girl told researchers: “I get asked for naked pictures at least two or three times a week.”

A boy said: “You would have seen a girl’s breasts before you’ve seen their face” while another youngster referred to so-called sexting as “the new flirting”.

Also this week, censors were forced to announce a crackdown on depraved films amid fears they distort the way teenage boys view women. The British Board of Film Classification will ban movies or cut scenes to protect the vulnerable.

Pupils aged from 13 to 16 admitted to Channel 4 News that intimate photos helped them decide who to date.

One told the programme her father would have asked girls for a kiss when he was her age “but now it’s kind of – do you want to have sex”. A boy of the same age said: “It might shock parents this is what kids get up to but it’s just everyday life. It’s natural – it’s all part of growing up.”

A 14-year-old from Berkshire said she received messages asking her to reply with a smiley face if she wanted sex or another phone symbol if she would prefer to perform a sex act on the sender.

Insight into the pornography increasingly exchanged by young teenagers came from interviews carried out for the NSPCC and Channel 4’s Generation Sex series.

“This is mainstream; this is normal; this is almost mundane for some of the people we spoke to,” said Andy Phippen, the Plymouth University academic who carried out the study. “In pretty much every school in the country, people aged 13 and 14 are talking about this stuff and dealing with this stuff.”

The research, based on focus groups with 220 Year Nine pupils aged 13 and 14, found they were becoming sexualised earlier, largely because pornography was so easy to find online. Professor Phippen, who is a social responsibility expert, also held sessions with 10- and 11-year-olds and found that most have received online abuse as well as messages from strangers.

 

Jon Brown of the NSPCC said: “What we’re seeing is that there is a very regular and normal consumption of hardcore adult pornography – that the sharing of explicit sexual imagery by photos or by video clips is now extremely normal.

“It’s important to recognise what was previously regarded as unusual, concerning, or sensationalist, now has in fact become the norm.” The focus groups found that the influence of porn was pervasive. A 15-year-old girl said that boys expected certain things of girls because they had become used to seeing it in online pornography.

The boys told the study team that in the absence of decent sex education, they were turning to online porn to learn about sex and relationships. And the easy availability was having a debilitating effect on them.

One 15-year-old said: “They’re put under pressure to get these photos of girls, to have muscles, to look this certain way, to be able to like do all these positions and to be able to last the longest in bed.”

The study found that sexting was related to other online issues and draws influence from celebrity and pornography. Porn is frequently viewed by boys of 13 and 14, and while the children acknowledge there is potential for harm, they do not feel they are affected themselves. Girls of this age generally do not look at porn, and view it as a negative influence on boys.

Mr Brown added: “Good quality sex education is absolutely critical. It needs to start in primary school. It needs to be age-appropriate, if we are able to help them navigate their way through these pressures.”

Despite the fact that access to Facebook is supposed to be restricted to those aged 13 and above, the study found that most 10- and 11-year-olds are on social networking sites. - Daily Mail

Get our free Lifestyle newsletter - subscribe here...

For support and fun on your parenting journey, join our Babynet forum....


sign up
 
 

Comment Guidelines



  1. Please read our comment guidelines.
  2. Login and register, if you haven’ t already.
  3. Write your comment in the block below and click (Post As)
  4. Has a comment offended you? Hover your mouse over the comment and wait until a small triangle appears on the right-hand side. Click triangle () and select "Flag as inappropriate". Our moderators will take action if need be.

     

Business Directory