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London - Parents having a regular gin and tonic or bottle of wine in the home are more likely to see their children become binge drinkers, says a report.
Family drinking and seeing their parents drunk raises the risk of children having an alcoholic drink by the age of 13, it found.
Teenagers are twice as likely to have got drunk several times if they witness their parents drunk.
Findings from a major survey suggest parental behaviour is helping fuel Britain’s teen drinking epidemic. Teenagers are much more likely to have had an alcoholic drink if their parents do not know where they are on a Saturday night, or if they are allowed to watch 18-rated films unsupervised.
The survey highlights the “paramount importance” of parents setting an example and supervising their children’s initial experiences with alcohol.
Experts say there is “little benefit” in government policy aiming to prevent youngsters from trying alcohol, instead it should limit the immediate and long-term harm it causes.
They are calling for more support for parents, especially in understanding how their own drinking affects their child’s behaviour and that the most common place for youngsters to get hold of alcohol is in the home. The survey of 5,700 schoolchildren was commissioned by the Joseph Rowntree Foundation, an independent research group, amid mounting concern about binge drinking by teenagers.
It found that one in four 13 to 14-year-olds have been drunk more than once, which doubles to just over half of children by the time they reach 15 or 16.
One quarter of pupils aged 15 and 16 who drink consumed six or more drinks the last time they used alcohol - way above government safe drinking limits for adults.
The survey shows the youngest teenagers are mainly drinking alcopops. By the age of 16, four in five pupils have been drunk - “in many cases, getting drunk is intentional”, says the report.
The influence of friends is significant in getting teenagers drunk, with the risk more than doubling if they spend more than two nights a week socialising. “While friends play a critical role, family has a strong direct and indirect influence,” says the report.
Youngsters are more at risk of becoming regular drinkers and drinking to excess if they are exposed to a close family member, especially a parent, drinking or getting drunk.
Seeing older siblings get drunk has the same effect, while having a first drink aged six or younger also influences drunkenness.
Claire Turner, from the foundation, said: “This research shows that parents can have more influence on their teenagers’ behaviour than perhaps many assumed.
“Both what parents say and how they behave have a strong impact on their teenagers drinking, drinking regularly, and drinking to excess.”
UNDERAGE DRINKING: THE FACTS
The survey’s findings included:
*The most common age for a first drink was 12-13, usually celebrating a special occasion with adults
*Nine out of ten 16-year-olds have had an alcoholic drink
*One in four 16-year-olds say they downed six or more drinks the last time they drank
*Half of 13-year-old drinkers say they have been drunk
*Two out of three 16-year-olds who have been drunk say they and their friends aim to get drunk at least once a month
*Youngsters are more likely to drink if at least one member of the family drinks each week
*Being with older friends who drink means a youngster is more likely to get drunk
*Seeing a parent drunk raises the odds the child will drink excessively
*The most common place for children to obtain drink is the home - Daily Mail
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The issue has more to do with dysfunctional relationships in the family. We have a close relationship with our children and I gave them solid moral training, with the object of the child owning the values. These factors help the child not to be so easily influenced by wayward peers. We also set an example of moderation, having a glass of wine with our Saturday evening meal, and my husband enjoys an occasional whisky in the evening. The article is simplistic in that it assumes that parents drinking any alcohol is a recipe for children ending up binge-drinking, when it doesn't take into account factors like family relationships. Our sons each had exactly one experience of overdoing it at friends' parties in their late teens, due to peer influence, and they learned a lesson! Our children, now adult, do not abuse alcohol. And when they are driving, they do not drink at all. Peer pressure is probably the second biggest influence on children becoming binge drinkers, especially for children who are not affirmed at home, so they want to be accepted by the crowd. Children who abuse alcohol tend to come from dysfunctional families, often where the parents abuse alcohol. Also, in overly strict families, even those where no alcohol is consumed, a child may rebel, being tempted by forbidden fruit - rules without relationship breed rebellion. A relative began smoking as a teenager as a form of rebellion against her father, a teetotal non-smoker, and she is still hooked and her health is suffering. However, if there is an alcoholic gene in the family, it is best to avoid alcohol completely - one drink and the person is hooked.
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