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Associated Press

fantasy: Who are the discerning users of addictive games like World of Warcraft?

London - A growing number of marriages are being wrecked by videogame addiction.

More women filing for divorce are complaining that their husbands spend too long playing videogames, according to research.

Of those wives who cite unreasonable behaviour for ending their marriage, 15 percent believe their partners put gaming before them.

This has soared from five percent a year ago, the study by Divorce Online found.

In particular, disgruntled wives blamed World of Warcraft, which allows gamers to create their own fantasy character for mythical adventures, and Call of Duty, where gamers battle in various war zones.

The games have faced heavy criticism in the past for their addictive properties, with some claiming that World of Warcraft is more addictive than cocaine.

One wife who blames her husband’s obsession for the breakdown of their marriage is Jessica Ellis, 24, from London. She said: He was addicted to World of Warcraft but played other games now and then. The amount he was playing gradually increased until I could not take it any more.

When it became serious he was playing up to eight hours a day. I was constantly trying to get him to cut back but he didn t think he had a problem until I told him I wanted to leave. But by that time it was too late.

Ryan G Van Cleave, an expert on videogame addiction, said many partners were unaware that gaming can become an addiction.

He said: The problem spouses encounter with videogame addiction is that the non-gamer doesn t appreciate that it s an addiction. This means it s not a choice to spend so much time in a virtual environment versus time with the spouse and family. It s a compulsion.

The reality is that with the proper professional support, a videogame addict, like any other type of addict, can over-come the addiction.

The study looked at 200 unreasonable behaviour petitions filed by women.

Divorce Online managing director Mark Keenan said his team carried out the research after noticing World of Warcraft was repeatedly cited by unhappy wives.

He said: “I was surprised by the result at first, but I would expect the number to be even higher next year.”

The increase could be a consequence of people staying indoors more because of the recession, or it might be being used by men in particular as a means of escape from an already unhappy relationship. - Daily Mail

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Anonymous, wrote

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03:08pm on 31 May 2011
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would like to get some of those tv characters in a wow arena ..and hit them with a retardin ten ton hammer ..and finish then off with a 3 holy charged templar's verdict .

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MitchH, wrote

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02:44pm on 31 May 2011
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I bought my girlfriend a Nintendo DS and a bunch of games she used to play as a kid - Mario, Zelda, stuff like that... Problem solved.

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rob, wrote

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02:27pm on 31 May 2011
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chicks are the enemy!!!! seriously girls, get over yourselves, we dont complain when you spend the same 8 hours whining about whether this top makes you look fat do we ;)

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Anonymous, wrote

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02:26pm on 31 May 2011
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@ExWOWPlayer, brother you should put your foot down!! Show her who wears the pants in the family............only if you are brave enough though :-)

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Anonymous, wrote

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02:23pm on 31 May 2011
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Well, I am a wife of a "wow" (world of warcraft" gamer. And I have joined the ranks. We now play together and it has brought us closer. We might be addicted, but we also have a real life too.

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Anonymous, wrote

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02:13pm on 31 May 2011
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Lloyd, Gamers are people too!! I feel the Splinter cell, it's a Brilliant set of Strategic games. Tom Clancy is THE best.

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ExWoWPlayer, wrote

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02:11pm on 31 May 2011
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Been there, got the threat. They don't seem to understand that you are actually at home, not in bars, etc. I don't like watching Idols and all the other crap on TV, so why do I need to sit through it and please you if you don't allow me my little pleasures of playing WoW. Must admit, It is now more than a year since I've last played and is really missing the game. Sorry for venting. :)

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Anonymous, wrote

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02:00pm on 31 May 2011
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Seriously, these women just need to buy dildos - problem solved.

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Lloyd, wrote

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01:42pm on 31 May 2011
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Surprised these gamers have "real" wives and partners

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CeeJay, wrote

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01:38pm on 31 May 2011
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I play Guild Wars after work. My wife watches her soapies after work.Our 12 yr old daughter spends her time on sites suitable for her age. Yet we still find time for each other and have a happy family. I admit the temptation is great to "overindulge" with gaming. Glad I dont have to make a choice though...she may not like my choice ;)

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Anonymous, wrote

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01:28pm on 31 May 2011
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What do these women want, I'm home ain't I, or would you rather have me running the streets with my friends chasing skirts and getting up to no good? You have all the time in the world to watch soapies and the kardashian's , just let me be please. You know exactly where i am, I will never cheat and I'm happy so what do you really want? Drug of choice for me is Splinter Cell.

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