Women across the globe are having better, longer and much more sex with their partners and lovers than men.
The survey, conducted by Victoria Milan – a dating site for married and attached people looking to have an affair – polled 5917 of its active members from 15 countries to discover just how sexually active they are with their long term partners vs. their lovers, and women came out on top.
On average, women experienced approximately four sexual partners in the last year, while men only had their way with three. When looking into how many days per week people are sexually active, women are getting their kicks approximately 4.9 days per week, while men are lagging behind at just 4.1 days.
56.1% Of gents say they have sexual urges several times a day, while just 37% of women feel the same way.
To deal with those steamy urges, the majority of women (29.3%) say they have sex with their long-term partner on a daily basis. Surprisingly, an equal number of women say they have sex with their lover every day (28.2%) and some, just once a month (28.2%).
The majority of men (26.5%) say they’re sleeping with their partner once a week, and a quarter (25.2%) say they’re doing the mattress mambo with their lover with the same frequency – just once a week.
One-night stands may be a thing of the past, with a definite trend of both male (38.3%) and female (37.1%) saying they just don’t bother with a one-time hook up. Nearly a third of both sexes say they might give it a go with a stranger once a year.
When it comes to slipping between the sheets, those in long-term relationships don’t waste much time on getting passionate. The majority of women (39.3%) say they have sex with their partner in less than five minutes, but will spend up to 30 minutes having sex with a lover (26.5%). Almost one-third of men (30.2%) say sex with their partner takes 15 minutes, and up to 30 minutes with their lover (28.5%).
The majority, 52.8% of women and 39.9% of men, say they dedicate up to 30 minutes for any other erotic playing around in the bedroom with their long-term partner. Men (31.8%) dedicate the same amount of time to their lover, but women (38.6%) will spend up to two hours working their boudoir magic for their lover.
Generally speaking, the men (26.9%) and women (28.2%) polled slept with only one person last year, and men were more likely to sleep with two (19.4%). Shockingly, women who didn’t sleep with one man last year were more likely to have jumped in the sack with more than 10 (15.5%).
Founder and CEO of Victoria Milan, Sigurd Vedal, said the survey data showed that although men are hornier than women, women are having more sex, and for longer.
“It’s no longer a scandal if a woman loves having sex. She knows how to get it, where to get it, and she will get it every day if she feels like it. Men spend roughly the same time in the bedroom with long-term partners and lovers. Women on the other hand will indulge their lover for up to two hours with bedroom tricks,” Mr Vedal said.
Data for this survey was collected from 15 countries: Sweden, United States, Denmark, Belgium, Finland, Spain, Norway, Poland, France, Netherlands, Germany, United Kingdom, Ireland, Czech Republic and South Africa.