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Men apparently become nicer, kinder and more caring when there is a beautiful woman nearby. In this file picture, Julia Moller and David Ordinas perform in a dress rehearsal for Disney's Beauty and the Beast.

London - If the man in your life is suddenly on his best behaviour, have a look around.

Men apparently become nicer, kinder and more caring when there is a beautiful woman nearby.

Women, however, feel less of a need to impress and remain true to themselves, even when there is a handsome chap hovering in the wings.

To investigate how having an audience affects our behaviour, British and Dutch researchers asked a group of men and women to play a computer game.

The 130 volunteers were told they could donate money into a communal pot via a computer programme.

They were told that others, whose details were kept secret, were also playing the game and, at the end, the money given away would be doubled and then shared out.

Some sat alone while playing the game. In other cases, an attractive man or women sat within reach.

When the men were watched by the woman, they donated 28 percent more cash than when the man had his eyes on them.

They also donated more in the woman’s presence than when sitting alone.

But the female volunteers’ heads were less easily turned.They gave the same amount of money, no matter who was or wasn’t watching, according to a report in the British Journal of Psychology.

The researchers then set up a second experiment, focusing on the men.

Once more, they were asked to decide how much money to give away, but this time the game had multiple rounds.

When watched by a woman, the men became competitive, with each seemingly trying to show he was nicer than the rest by giving more money away as time went on.

In contrast, those playing alone or with another man watching became less generous over the course of the game.

Finally, the men were asked if they would like to volunteer their time to charity. Again, the presence of a woman brought out the best in them. Offers of giving blood and working with children were particularly forthcoming.

* Women are more likely to look on the bright side than men, a study has shown.

It found the female memory focuses on pleasant experiences.Men, however, tend to hold on to unpleasant recollections.

The University of Montreal researchers showed 34 men and women a series of photos, ranging from pretty to disturbing. Later, the women were better at remembering the pleasant pictures, while the men were best at recalling the awful ones. The study is published in the International Journal of Psychophysiology. - Daily Mail

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OutofAfrica, wrote

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04:11pm on 6 February 2012
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LOL - yes, the 'phone voice' is generally true. The men to who this article applies, most likely have a low EQ!

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09:11am on 6 February 2012
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Listen when your man answers the phone. You should be able to tell, instantly, whether he is talking to a man or a woman. With women, the voice is lower and slower and with a man, macho and firm.

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Melissa, wrote

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08:22am on 6 February 2012
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This is generalizing crap!

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Filo, wrote

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08:06am on 6 February 2012
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what a load of bull..

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Thabs, wrote

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08:02am on 6 February 2012
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Behaving well scores you points with your mother in law but no with chicks, chicks love a bad boy and good guys always finish last

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