I forgive you dad, says Lily Collins

Actor Lily Collins attends the 2017 Vanity Fair Oscar Party. PICTURE: Pascal Le Segretain / AFP

Actor Lily Collins attends the 2017 Vanity Fair Oscar Party. PICTURE: Pascal Le Segretain / AFP

Published Mar 8, 2017

Share

Actress Lily Collins has revealed she's forgiven her father Phil for not being the dad she expected.

The 27 year old actress and model has spoken candidly about her relationship with the 66 year old singer-songwriter in an open letter, saying she has forgiven him for being absent at crucial moments in her life.

READ: Jane Fonda: I was raped and I blamed myself

In Lily's debut book, 'Unfiltered: No Shame, No Regrets, Just Me' excerpts of which are published in the Daily Mail newspaper she explains: "I forgive you for not always being there when I needed and for not being the dad I expected. "I forgive the mistakes you made. And although it may seem like it's too late, it's not. There's still so much time to move forward."

A post shared by Lily Collins (@lilyjcollins) on Mar 6, 2017 at 11:31am PST

Lily, whose mother is Phil's second wife Jill Tavelman, revealed she has learned how to accept her father's perceived failings as a parent. She wrote: "We all make choices and, although I don't excuse some of yours, at the end of the day we can't rewrite the past. "I'm learning how to accept your actions and vocalize how they made me feel. I accept and honour the sadness and anger I felt toward the things you did or didn't do, did or didn't give me."

READ: Kunal Nayyar thought invite to Buckingham Palace was a joke

Meanwhile, the Golden Globe-nominated actress has also discussed her battle with anorexia and bulimia which she claimed was tied to Phil's divorce from his third wife Orianne Cevey. Phil, who has four more children, was married to Orianne from 1999 until 2008.

A post shared by Lily Collins (@lilyjcollins) on Mar 5, 2017 at 12:48pm PST

Reflecting on the impact of their split, Lily shared: "Not only did I start viewing myself differently physically, but I began limiting my happiness by controlling my eating habits. "I couldn't handle the pain and confusion surrounding my dad's divorce, and I was having a hard time balancing being a teenager with pursuing two different grown-up careers."

Related Topics: