Don't touch my hair

Published Dec 16, 2016

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Solange Knowles 

NATURAL hair in various

styles and colour is trending

right now. A number of

women are opting to wear

their hair natural instead of using hair

straighteners or weaves. 

Naturally, celebrities, artists and influencers

are at the forefront of this revolution,

showing us just how we can push

natural hair boundaries with as little

effort as possible.

US singer Solange Knowles’s album A

Seat At The Table, released in September,

has become a “Bible” for those who are

pushing the “don’t touch my hair” narrative. The album talks about black pride and self-love, and it also

encourages women to embrace their natural hair. 

Beauty blogger Eleanor J’adore has come to love her natural curls.

South African beauty blogger Eleanor

J’adorehas been wearing her hair in its

naturally curly state for most of her life,

alternating between relaxers, blow-drying

and flat-ironing every so often.

“I still remember begging my mother

to relax my hair when I was 12 years old,

and how she reluctantly gave in to my

persistent requests. Ever since then, it

was a see-saw ride of wearing my hair

curly and straight,” she says.

“When I was 20, I dyed my hair a very

obnoxious blonde and wore it curly most

of the time, but my hair soon dried out

and became very straw-like.

“I didn’t know a thing about caring

for coloured hair then and this is when

I decided to chop it all off. I just didn’t

want to be walking around with my awful

blonde curls any more. Even though I

loved the emerging dark curls, I soon

relaxed it again.” 

Maintaining natural hair is not easy;

a lot of work goes into looking after your

hair and in making sure that it’s healthy

and moisturised. 

Although there is a

growing number of natural hair products

in the market, there are not enough good

products on offer in South Africa. 

Over the years, J’adore had to turn to

the internet for advice on how to take

care of her curly hair. “With the help of

blogs and forums, I decided to stop using

all heat on my hair. I eventually went for

two years not using any form of heat. I

also started deep-conditioning my hair

weekly, and started to incorporate natural

oils into my routine, such as extra-virgin

olive and coconut oils. “Every few months I would just trim

off some of the heat-damaged hair. My

hair has been thriving ever since. 

“I think women are simply tired of conforming

to the expectation that straight

hair is better when they don’t actually

have straight hair. Most women want to

set a positive example for their children.

So, often, we hear children say ‘I want my

hair straight and pretty like the girls’ hair

at school’. That, combined with seeing

their mothers straightening their hair

when they themselves have curly coils

sends an indirect message that their natural

hair isn’t beautiful,” says J’adore.

According to her, transitioning from

chemically straightened and damaged

hair is a scary and often traumatic process.

And that many opt to bravely cut off

the damaged hair, referred to as the “big

chop”, and start afresh. She encourages women to join online

groups where members provide support

on how to make the journey easier with

practical hair advice. 

THE FIRST ever Cape Town Hair Festival

will be held this Sunday. Naturalistas

will have the chance to shop and be

inspired by all things natural hair-related. 

Festival highlights include: 

● MC on the day will be actress and

singer Chantal Stanfield. 

● A natural hair talk by stalwart Brian

Warfield, who has over 27 years' experience

in the hair-care industry. 

● A demonstration on creating your

perfect home-made hair product by

Rockin Naturals and Cape Town Naturally

co-founder Kasuba Stuurman. 

● A talk on “Why your Natural Hair

Journey Matters” by Eleanor J’adore. 

● A Christmas shopping experience

brought to you by over 20 vendors of hair,

beauty and accessory brands. 

TICKETS

: Entrance to the Cape Town

Natural Hair Fest is R50.

Free for kids under 12.

Tickets are available at the door. 

Date and time: Sunday, December 18,

from 10am to 6pm. 

Venue: Blue Bird Garage in Muizenberg.

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