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Handshakes should either be a non-negotiable or be dropped altogether, says the author.

Start with the handshake. It has run its course. No doubt when the plan was conceived at Premier League HQ, all concerned thought it a noble and sporting way to open proceedings. This is football, however. Every rule, every refinement, will be twisted in some way to gain a competitive advantage. So now we have the snubbed handshake as a psychological ploy. Carefully planted stories prior to a big game, will they, won’t they? And as Luis Suarez proved on Saturday, just because you were in the wrong, doesn’t mean you can’t flip that standpoint. Patrice Evra no doubt lined up, believing he had a foot on the high moral ground. And then Suarez treated him like the pariah. Who knows what the Uruguayan phrase is that means ‘more front than Selfridges’ but if there is one, he is worthy of it.

 

 

The handshake issue can be dealt with overnight by making the responsibility of players very clear. Before each match, you shake hands with all opponents in the line, and failure to do so results in a disrepute charge. Either enforce the gesture, or abandon it. We cannot let this farce continue. Ever since John Terry was left hanging by Wayne Bridge in 2010, there has been the possibility of ordeal by refused greeting. Now it seems to be a weekly occurrence. What should be a commitment to sportsmanship has descended into the first shot fired. As this ceremony is having the opposite effect to that intended, it is time to evolve the regulation: enforce or abandon. It is the Football Association’s call.

 

 

So Suarez lit the fuse by publicly humiliating Evra, who was attempting some small reconciliation. Why did he do this? He did it because he felt empowered. And he felt empowered because his club have allowed him to believe and behave as if he has done nothing wrong; until Sunday when one imagines a tipping point was reached, and Suarez apologised. Not to Evra directly, we notice. Not quite. Suarez instead said sorry to his manager and his club, as he should. He has done them no little harm in recent months.

 

 

Yet both helped create this monster. They could still have supported Suarez while making plain from the start that his conduct towards Evra was unacceptable. They could have let him serve his punishment and return without casually flicking a match into the powder keg. They did not. While Kenny Dalglish maintained his strong public sense of resentment over the ban, there was no prospect of closure; while Liverpool allowed this to fester there was always the potential for further outrage. Suarez deceived them, by reneging on a pre-match pledge to behave correctly, but there have been some very mixed messages from Liverpool. Everyone was apologising on Sunday: player, manager, club. It should have happened sooner. The wisdom of Liverpool’s stance on Suarez will long remain a mystery. What good any of it has done will long remain a mystery.

 

 

Every manager has used a siege mentality to inspire his players, but never like this. There is a difference between convincing a group the world is against them, and behaving in a way that ensures the world is. Only the most blindly devoted could find reason in Suarez’s actions before Sunday’s climbdown and no good came of his ignominious last stand at Old Trafford, and no victory, moral or literal. It should have been Suarez’s first step towards rehabilitation. Instead, he ended a two-time loser.

 

 

Now to Evra’s problem. He could not recognise that he had won, so also lost. His triumphalist, confrontational behaviour at the end of the game diminished him, and detracted from the hard-fought victory of his team-mates. It was unnecessary. By offering his hand, he had shown a willingness to reconcile. It was no easy match for him, mentally, after the snub but as United’s captain he should have controlled his emotions. He should not have put personal feelings ahead of what was best for his team. His antics in stirring could have had serious consequences had he sparked a brawl, and further FA sanction for players of both sides.

 

 

All round, it was a desperately depressing day for football, and we must hope Suarez’s statement is the beginning of a difficult and lengthy healing process. It has to be; beyond lies madness. – Daily Mail

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mark, wrote

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05:56pm on 14 February 2012
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just do it with the capatains who shake hands at the beginning of international matches. they don't shake hands in rugby, tennis, baseball,hockey etc etc until after the game. Even the head of fifa thinks it is ok to lie and cheat your way to penaltiesa. Lokks like United have taken that to heart with all their diving and begging the rf to book players all the time. Go Manchester City.

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05:53pm on 14 February 2012
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@Bleh Keep your shirt on! Suarez called him something that he normally calls people of that race. For your information, I will provide the meaning of the word he used - Negro: a member of the peoples traditionally classified as the Negro race, especially those who originate in sub-Saharan Africa.The word “Negro” is used in the English-speaking world to refer to a person of black ancestry or appearance, whether of African descent or not. The word negro means 'black' in Spanish and Portuguese, from the Latin niger, 'black', probably from a Proto-Indo-European root.

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05:14pm on 14 February 2012
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its seems as rebel wants to mention trophies and who has more???start googling rebel and whats this possession crap. If United cant beat liverpool they call it rascism.Is evra not a negro???Anyway rebel you can sing that glory glory song, and dont 4get to mention that the reds go marching on, yeah the reds!!!Not red devils

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03:44pm on 14 February 2012
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Rebel, Trophyless I think not. We're still in FA Cup and Carling, what are you up for this season. Sweet fanny adam baby. Oh yes and we took you out of FA cup didn't we. LOL. And it was one game you beat us, don't take too much glory. And Suarez cries like a girl, have you seen Nani he actually shed tears becuase he couldn't stand up to the pure force of a Liverpool player like Gerrard or Skertl. Man U players are like little girls. But hey each to their own I guess. Funny how in the last game against Chelsea you guys got two penalties for what? Mmmm let me think, oh yes DIVING. Even the commentators afterwards agreed. So please get your facts straight when it comes to football. Oh and just by the way if you want to see the EUFA trophy you'll have to pay 5 pounds to go to Anfield because if you win it 5 times you get to keep it. Oh yes you haven't so you wouldn't know. LOL. We can still tie with you in league wins etc, so don't think you're gods just yet. Man City is going to pip you at the post and I'm going to celebrate like there is no tomorrow. Because you won't be taking home any trophies this season, big boy!!!!

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03:23pm on 14 February 2012
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what a load of crap,people really overreacting if Suarez doesnt what to shake the hand of that rat fink evra thats his perogative.I mean the reaction of evra in grabbing Suarez's hand was something to be expected from grade 2.@Rebel why dont you go and spank your monkey as usual to your man u videos, you are sooo biased its scary.Respect is earned and evra has definitely not earned anyones respect!This whole situ is ridiculous, I can insult him in any other way but dont dare mention his race.....pathetic....lol

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Bleh, wrote

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03:20pm on 14 February 2012
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Evra moved to france when he was 1 year old.. so he had every right to play for france, what you on about? What he did in terms of the boycott was wrong, but so was the racist remarks made by suarez! Evra got banned 5 games for his wrong doing & suarez got banned too. IT WASNT A ACCUSATION IT WAS FACT.... SUAREZ HIMSELF ADMITTED TO IT, get your stories straight!!

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Azeem, wrote

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02:48pm on 14 February 2012
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Well said @ Rebel

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Danny, wrote

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01:32pm on 14 February 2012
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I also wouldn't want to shake the hand of someone who cries racism where none was intended. Evra refused to play for an African country but chose to play for France. In the 2010 WC he disgraced France by urging the players to refuse to play. Evra is a cry baby, especially when things don't go his way as happened at the game that he accused Suarez of abusing him.

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Rebel, wrote

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12:55pm on 14 February 2012
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@anonymous HAHAHA your comments are a true reflection of "trophyless" syndrome!! Man utd beat you fair and square on sat? without so called "cheating", "diving" & "paying off ref's"! possesion of 69% Man utd 31% liverpool.. need i say more? You contradict yourself when you say Suarez is pure class and calling man utd cheats.. DO you remember what he did for Uruguay "solid cheat".. did you see how he carried on like a girl when Ferdinand tackled him fair and square?"diving & acting like a girl" so please get your story right and look at your own team first before Judging the team that is trumping your ancient trophy cabinet.

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11:59am on 14 February 2012
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Patrick Evra didn't deserve a hand shake from Suarez. He's a snivveling little rat. Man U only wins games on cheating, paid off ref's and constant diving and crying for a penalty. Before they've even hit the floor they're already looking at the ref. Ferdinand is a coke head that was let off for that. John Terry has the same thing on his plate with racism yet he's only going to fight it in June??? I'm glad Suarez didn't shake Evra's hand, he didn't deserve it. Suarez took his 8 match ban and now he's back. He doesn't have to admit to anything else or shake Evra's hand. He's done what was passed onto him. What does Evra want, for Suarez to kiss his feet. Not in this lifetime. Next time Evra better watch out that a Liverpool player doesn't take him straight out of the game instead of calling him a name that as a big boy he couldn't handle, clearly. Sticks and stones you stupid Man U players or should I say big babies. Play football and stop trying to win games on lies and cheating. Then we'll know you're a true football club. Actually win a game by playing proper football. Suarez is pure class.

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Rebel, wrote

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11:34am on 14 February 2012
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@anonymous, another liverpool die hard i see.. There was clear evidence in the video footage of suarez and evra that he was taunting evra & he himself admitted to calling him a "negro" but you are to blinded & ill-informed to know these thing i suppose.. just by you standing by suarez shows you what sort of mentality you have.. And in actual fact rio had every right to snub suarez, he disrespected a fellow team mate!!!! You telling me you would not have done that? No wonder you under anonymous.. go back to the sorry hole you came from.

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Ulbisch1, wrote

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11:23am on 14 February 2012
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i played many,many years ago,and i can tell you,everbody on the pitch would be arrested compare to today's SISSIES

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08:44am on 14 February 2012
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Hey rebel, Ferdinand had no right not to shake Suarez hand, this has nothing to do with him. You are talking so much BS. Does anyone know what Suarez said to Evra???So all these comments please take them away. Only Suarez and Evra knows. For Suarez to shake Evra's hand would mean he was guilty. Anyway you call a person a thief but then want to borrow money from the same thief, i dont think thats fine, same principles here!!!

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allan, wrote

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05:39pm on 13 February 2012
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Right on, Rugga!

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Ivanovich, wrote

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05:34pm on 13 February 2012
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This whole "Racism" row is a Media plan to create trouble and sell more newspapers! Strange that it always seems to be about Black players but not AsiaticOriental players. Possibly because of the "logs on their shoulders"? Let's stick to sport not these faceless "Racist" (Black?) complaints.

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Rugga, wrote

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04:43pm on 13 February 2012
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What is all this handshake BS before a game starts anyway! It's a league game after all. It aint like this is WC final. You shake after the game - period! For crying out loud - stop acting like a bunch of girls. It's bad enough that these guys throw themselves on the ground and start wailing everytime someone comes near them.

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04:15pm on 13 February 2012
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For the first time in 35 years I found myself unable to support Liverpool. Liverpool must get rid of suares as he is antagonising all the players and supporters African origin, Kenny must watch out that his own players don't revolt against suares. FA to charge him with anouther count of misconduct and suspend him for the rest of the season make an example of him. I agree with Fergy, he has just crapped on 100years of heritage. suares is now walking alone.

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Rebel, wrote

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03:55pm on 13 February 2012
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@Aquatic Ape... Seriously?? you must be a liverpool fan, always looking to find a excuses to everything. First of all.. there are many reasons as to why Ferdinand didnt shake Suarez's hand: Reason 1: What would you do if you had just witnessed someone"suarez in this case" just snub your mate "evra - the team captain i might ad" with a handshake, when he clearly made the effort? Any human being would be 100% behind your friend and snub that guy back, if you even say you wouldn't.. then thank fook you not one of my mates. Reason 2: Rio's brother was involved in a racist spat, if you can recall.. so im sure he is completely against racists like suarez especially when they disrespect the person they offended. Common sense dont you think? maybe look past your blind "You'll never walk alone" syndrome.. and see who really is wrong here before you point finger elsewhere..

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03:52pm on 13 February 2012
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Evra was responsible for a misscarrige of justice to start with. He has in the past been rude and abusive of opponents ie. arsenals nasri etc. On top of that Suarez is not english so whp are the press and the Fa to judge his comment. Rio Ferdinand is guilty ofthe same offence but is Fergie calling for him to be kicked out, no not a word. Thewhole racism fiasco is being blown out of proportion with all the claims and counter claims. Tempers are raised by competing sportsmen and remarks or comments should be left on the field where they belong. Its like a bunch of schoolkids fighting about whose got the biggest slice of cake!

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Rebel, wrote

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03:51pm on 13 February 2012
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@Aquatic Ape... Seriously?? you must be a liverpool fan, always looking to find a excuses to everything. First of all.. there are many reasons as to why Ferdinand didnt shake Suarez's hand: Reason 1: What would you do if you had just witnessed someone"suarez in this case" just snub your mate "evra - the team captain i might ad" with a handshake, when he clearly made the effort? Any human being would be 100% behind your friend and snub that guy back, if you even say you wouldn't.. then thank fook you not one of my mates. Reason 2: Rio's brother was involved in a racist spat, if you can recall.. so im sure he is completely against racists like suarez especially when they disrespect the person they offended. Common sense dont you think? maybe look past your blind "You'll never walk alone" syndrome.. and see who really is wrong here before you point finger elsewhere..

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