It’s okay to remarry, but no sex!

Divorced Roman Catholics should be able to remarry " as long as they don't have sex, senior cardinals said.

Divorced Roman Catholics should be able to remarry " as long as they don't have sex, senior cardinals said.

Published Sep 11, 2015

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London - Divorced Roman Catholics should be able to remarry – as long as they don’t have sex, senior cardinals has said.

This would ensure that divorcees who get married again are properly contrite before they are allowed back into the Church.

But it is likely to add to the confusion felt by many divorced Catholics, who are excommunicated if they wed again without having their original marriage annulled by the Church.

The proposal was put forward by 11 Catholic leaders in a backlash against Pope Francis’s attempt to give divorcees a fast-track to forgiveness by making it simpler, cheaper and much quicker to get an annulment.

Pope Francis announced his reforms this week, but conservative Catholics believe easing the way to annulments undermines the idea that marriage is for life, and encourage more divorce.

Catholic doctrine does not recognise divorce, although the Church accommodates those who go through civil divorce on the grounds that a couple who part must settle on who will bring up their children and how their property should be divided.

This means that people who have a civil divorce remain full members of the Church, which regards their marriage as intact.

But they cannot remarry without an annulment – a ruling from the Church that the marriage was never valid in the first place.

The 11 dissident prelates say Roman Catholics who remarry should not have sex before the annulment of their first union.

The group is to put its arguments in a book being published by the same Jesuit tradition to which Francis himself belongs.

They call for stern laws on marriage and annulment to remain, and for teaching on lifelong marriage to be strengthened.

Cardinal Carlo Caffarra of Bologna, said easing the rules for divorced couples who remarry “is the mistaken pity of an incompetent or weak physician who contents himself with bandaging wounds without treating them”.

He said such couples should be required to show their contrition “by at least refraining from sexual relations with the new spouse”.

The “no sex” rule is thought to be backed by other Catholic leaders who have not spoken publicly.

Daily Mail

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