Opening your home for a dinner party should be simple in theory; good food, good company - what's not to enjoy?
However, according to the UK's biggest society magazine,Tatler there is a list of dinner party crimes as long as your arm - and hosts commit them all too readily, often because they're desperate to get their dining room just so.
From over-zealous decoration - or 'tablescaping' as its sometimes called, to creating an inferno with pretty candles, the society magazine has outlined what you shouldn't do if you're hoping for a spectacular evening chez vous.
Don't be tempted to theme your table
With the season of dinner parties about to get into full swing, Tatler says avoiding current trends altogether is a good way to start.
Themed displays including 'a mini-trellis with roses gently clambering all over it', 'a hedge-like fortification with fake butterflies' and 'jars of live butterflies flickering against the glass of a display cloche' are all en vogue...but should be avoided like the plague if you don't want substance to be overcome by style.
Relish the company, not the social media kicks
In an age where it isn't hard to live life through a lens, a dinner party should remain sacred. It's an intimate affair, not a flash restaurant in a new part of town. Opt for some good old human interaction...and turn your phone off.
Don't overdo the candles
Candles, reliable mood setters, can also be a flaming disaster if there are too many of them, say those in the know.
Tatler continues: 'Rooms entirely lit by candles so that the person opposite you is obscured in a terrifying, heat-hazy glow.'
Go for blooms but place flowers carefully
Flowers are surely an old faithful when it comes to table centres? Well, no, actually.
The placement of flowers, so beautiful, yet often so obstructing, also needs to be thought out carefully; there is no better conversation killer than a vase in front of a fellow diner's face.
The magazine advises that while blooms can still be an obvious sign of wealth, they can also completely overwhelm a social situation with a conversation cut short because guests can't see each other over the foliage.
And, you might know what they feel about monogrammed tableware, don't go there...