Getting him to the Oh-Zone!
Getting him to the Oh-Zone!

14 tips to get him to orgasm heaven

By Bella Rouge Time of article published Jul 26, 2016

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Going for a guy’s crown jewels will obviously work wonders for his arousal, but to strike orgasmic gold, take a detour to his body’s less well-known erogenous zones.

1. His Scalp

Think about how good it feels to brush your hand against the hair on the back of your man’s head, sliding and letting his hair part on either side of your fingers. Now imagine how good doing that feels for him.

Body parts featuring lots of hair are open to high levels of stimulation because moving the strands triggers nerve impulses along with the bare skin, so giving him a head massage is a great way to get him aroused.

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2. His Ears

You’ll often hear that the ears are erogenous zones because they’re packed with nerve endings, but they have fewer than many body parts. This is partly what makes them so erotic – they can be nibbled, sucked, bitten or chewed without causing much, if any, pain.

Men also respond hugely to sound. In a study by the University of Albany in the US, men rated moaning as one of the top best-kiss-making factors – it is, after all, a sure sign that you’re turned on.

3. His Neck

Veins, as well as a major artery, run relatively close to the surface of the skin in his neck, making it extremely sensitive to your touch. Kiss, gently nibble and lick along the veins, from top to bottom and back up again.

The hairs will stand up on the back of his head and, before long, something else will be also be pricked up…

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4. His Shoulders

Shoulder size is one of the main physical differences between the sexes and for this reason it’s an area he likes to have touched; doing so reminds him of his masculinity. The shoulders aren’t particularly sensitive, so be firm with them. Grab them tightly to give yourself leverage during sex, and kiss and bite them. Or take a softer approach with them to get him in the mood.

Tension is an antidote for arousal, and it’s common for men – particularly desk-bound ones – to experience extreme tightness in their shoulders and neck. Giving him a massage when he comes home will get him in the mood for proving how manly he is in the sack.

5. His Back

The back has fewer nerve endings than most other body parts but, like the shoulders, this lack of sensation means you can apply different types of touch to it. Show the intensity of your passion by digging in the flat sections of fingertips and, if he’s kinky, scratch down his back with your nails mid-passion. For total masochists, lightly running a pinwheel over his back, increasing pressure according to his tastes, will be just what he desires.

Run a fingertip from his inner elbow to his wrist on the inner arm and across his palm to his digit. He’ll think you’ve got magic fingers........

6. HIis Arms

Often neglected during sex, the arms are a worthwhile passion pitstop – just try kissing your man on his inner bicep and see how he reacts! Skin on the inside arm is softer and more sensitive than the outer area, partly because it’s not usually exposed to the sun and avoids toughening up as a consequence, and you shouldn’t forget his wrists.

Run a fingertip from his inner elbow, along towards his wrist on the inner arm, then across his palm to his middle digit. It’ll give him such a sexy tingle, he’ll think you’ve got magic fingers.

7. His Hands

With around 100 touch receptors per square centimetre, his fingertips can be highly sensitive, so it makes sense to play with them to get all his senses on heightened alert. Ask him to close his eyes, or blindfold him, then guide his hand over your naked body allowing only his fingertips to touch you. This will make him really focus on what each part of your body feels like.

The fingers also contain temperature sensors, so placing his finger in your warm mouth (or somewhere else hot!) will alert more nerve endings.

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8. His Chest & Nipples

Whether he’s hairy or smooth, your man’s chest is a worth lingering on when journeying down to his penis. If your man’s hairy, play with the tufts, gently tugging on them to activate his nerve endings. Swirl your fingers around in ever-decreasing circles towards his supersensitive nipples before diving in with your mouth. If your man’s a hairless wonder, really go to town on him with your tongue. Starting at the sensitive sides of his chest, use big ice cream-style licks on his skin, working inwards to his nipples, eventually using just the tip of your tongue.

Then blow on his wet nipple – this will make the moisture evaporate, sending zingy sensations across his tip. When playing with his nipples, avoid firm sucking and biting, as they’re incredibly sensitive, and reserve rougher play for the coloured area around them, called the areola.

9. His Stomach

Because of its proximity to his crown jewels, the stomach is a place you should definitely tease. Licking inside the belly button creates powerful sensations. To keep him on tenterhooks, kiss, lick and fondle around the area – he’ll love the feeling and be curious where you’re headed to next.

But don’t be obvious and go south. Instead, move your attention towards the sides of his waist before softly working your way down the grooves that lead from his hip bones to his pubic area.

10. His Penis

For the most obvious erogenous zone on his body, try something a little different, called The Lemon Squeeze. Place a well-lubed palm on the head of his penis, letting your fingers fall around the top of the shaft, then twist and turn with mild pressure, as though you’re squeezing a lemon but the juicer’s a bit fragile.

Avoid pushing down too hard, as you could cause him pain; the idea’s to apply friction to the head of his penis, but not to bend his banana.

For a subtler alternative, hold his member firmly with one hand and use the other to thoroughly explore the head. Rub the sides of his head with the lubed palm of your hand, swirling over and patting the top, and trace the edge of his corona (the ridge around the bottom of the head) with your fingers.

11. His Bottom & Anus

Grabbing your man’s behind sends his sex engine the clear message that you want him to crank the action up, but it can also work to opposite affect. You’ll notice he tenses his bum and thigh muscles just before climax – that’s because it intensifies the feeling and helps brings on the orgasm.

Massaging his bum when he’s close to coming will help him hold off orgasm. It’s a common misconception that stimulating the anus has to involve penetration, but simply massaging his pucker with a well-lubed fingertip when he’s inside you will fill him with warm sensations. If you want to take it up a notch, and he’s open to the idea, penetrate him with a finger.

The tissues inside and surrounding the anus can get torn or damaged easily, so trim and clean your nails beforehand or put a condom on your finger. With him lying on his back, legs bent and facing you, insert your fingertip then gradually press in the full length, with your finger facing you. About two inches inside is the prostate gland, which feels like a walnut-sized lump – stroke this in a come-hither motion and he’ll melt.

Remember to keep it hygienic, though: wash your hands afterwards, before touching your genitals or his.

12. His Testicles & Perineum

If you’re mid-sex, delivering a show-stopping blow-job or providing a helping hand-job, never neglect these three key areas.

Mid-action, roll his balls around in the palm of your hand, gently adding pressure, and explore under the testicles to feel the lowest part of the penis through the scrotal sack – it doesn’t often get attention! If his orgasm’s approaching too fast, slow it down by gently tugging his testicles (he may need a firmer touch for this to work, so check with him).

Due to its proximity to his most sensitive bits, your man’s perineum – the skin between his testicles and anus – can be used to get him hard without even touching his penis. When you go down on him, nuzzle the area with your lips and tongue, or use lube to massage it with your fingers, pressing firmly to stimulate the prostate gland.

 

13. His Thighs

Similarly to the stomach, the thighs are close enough to his best asset that touching them will put him into anticipation overdrive. With him sat on the bed or stood before you, kneel between his legs and take your time stroking, kissing and gently biting his thighs.

Every now and again, look up at him to let him know you’re enjoying yourself and keep his focus on how tantalisingly close your head is to his penis.

14. His Feet

Tonguing his tootsies could be the icing on the foreplay cake for him, and getting them in a state worthy of your attention is as easy as administering an erotic foot massage. Bathe his feet in warm water mixed with a splash of lemon juice, which helps soften his skin, then scrub, clip, exfoliate and moisturise them. Now go to town.

He’ll be most sensitive between his toes, so slide your tongue down there, using the tip to apply pressure. For some guys, seeing a woman with something even vaguely phallic-looking in their mouth can prove arousing, so taking his entire big toe inside your mouth and sucking on it while you make eye contact could be your blow-away move.

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