You’ll need to use your imagination, be creative and really concentrate on what you’re picturing in your head. Picture: Pixabay

Cybersex is a consensual interaction between two or more people, conducted on various online chat platforms (using technological smart devices), from typing to sharing erotic images, video and or sound clips. The purpose is to lead each other into mutual arousal leading to an orgasm.

Sounds a whole lot familiar when I put it to you that way right? That’s because you’ve been doing it for quite some time now.

How you can enjoy it?

So you’ll need to use your imagination, be creative and really concentrate on what you’re picturing in your head. Generally you can sext, you can send naughty videos, kinky images, send dirty voice notes, start your own camming show – you can even use emojis and stickers (if that’s your thing). You’re able to pretty much do anything for your sexual pleasures.

The exciting part (for me) is that if you’re single, you don’t have to limit yourself to just one person. You can have cybersex with as many people as you want; of course, you just have to be safe.

Can toys make it better?

OF COURSE!

Sex toys are an awesome addition your online relationship. One of my favourite Bluetooth enabled and app-controlled toys are We-Vibes. Even though you can’t touch or smell the other person, these technologically advanced toys will at least connect you via a chat where you chat, see or hear your partner. Interested? You can get yours right here.

What should you remember?

If you’re a beginner these are four simple things to take into consideration. When you know the person, it’s a little less awkward vs not knowing the person. In this instance let’s say you don’t know them:

  • Take your time and do as much research as you want, you don’t have to rush into steamy chat sites. 
  • Don’t forget that consent also exists online; at the end of the day you and the other person(s) have feelings and thoughts
  • If you’re going to send photos and/or videos, leave your face out of it!
  • Know what you’re getting yourself into (especially if you’re never going to meet in person)
  • And if it was a truly bad experience, do not feel pressured into ever having cybersex with the person(s) again. The great thing about these online platforms is that you can report a person and block a person

 Which chat rooms can I use?

Here are a few options to consider if you want to chat with strangers or find new dating partner(s). These apps let you allow to connect with strangers around the world as well as in your vicinity. 

  • Antiland
  • Omegle
  • Anonymous Chat
  • Chat for Strangers
  • Kik

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