QUESTION: My husband was a tender and romantic lover for the first 15 years of our marriage, but over the past five years, he’s become increasingly critical.
He keeps saying I’m too frigid to try new things, but I’ve never turned down his advances or suggestions. The more I try to please him, the crosser he seems. How do I deal with this?
ANSWER: If there’s one word I’d ban from the sexual lexicon, it’s “frigid”. It’s far easier to call your wife frigid than admit you may not be satisfying her.
Which is why your husband’s cruel words say more about him than you.