Hugs and dirty jokes - Americans differ on acceptable behaviour

A fan runs up to Barcelona's Lionel Messi to hug him. File picture: Thanassis Stavrakis/AP

A fan runs up to Barcelona's Lionel Messi to hug him. File picture: Thanassis Stavrakis/AP

Published Dec 27, 2017

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New York - Americans differ widely in

their views of what constitutes sexual harassment, with age and

race as well as gender throwing up the dividing lines, posing a

challenge for those who police for such conduct in the

workplace.

The issue has been thrown into the national spotlight as a

string of prominent men in U.S. politics, entertainment and the

media have been felled by allegations of sexual misconduct in

recent months.

A Reuters/Ipsos national opinion poll, released on

Wednesday, asked more than 3,000 American adults to consider

eight different scenarios and then prompted them to decide if

they would personally label each to be an example of sexual

harassment. The variation in responses showed a need for

employers to spell out expected standards, employment experts

said.

While most adults in the December 13-18 poll agreed that acts

such as intentional groping or kissing “without your consent”

amounted to sexual harassment, they disagreed over a number of

other actions.

When asked about “unwanted compliments about your

appearance,” for example, 38 percent of adults said this

amounted to sexual harassment, while 47 percent said it did not.

Some 41 percent of adults said they thought it was sexual

harassment when someone told you “dirty jokes” but 44 percent

said it was not. And 44 percent of adults said that

nonconsensual hugging was sexual harassment, while 40 percent

said it was not.

The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, a federal

agency that enforces workplace discrimination laws, says sexual

harassment can include unwelcome sexual advances as well as

other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature that affects

an individual's employment, interferes with their performance or

creates an intimidating or hostile work environment.

But courts have disagreed on when individual actions cross

the line into harassment. And many workplace sexual harassment

cases are settled by employers before they ever reach a court,

so there is not a constant judicial airing of standards.

TOUCHING AND HUGGING

Since people come to work with different ideas of what is

appropriate, managers should train their employees and develop

clear lines of conduct so that there are no misunderstandings,

said Suzanne Goldberg, director of the Center for Gender and

Sexuality Law at Columbia Law School.

“The onus is on employers” to set the tone, Goldberg said.

“Even if the co-workers don’t object or go to management to

complain.”

In the Reuters/Ipsos poll, for example, 19 percent of men

said that touching someone intentionally without their consent

was not sexual harassment, compared with 11 percent of women.

The poll did not specify exactly what was meant by

non-consensual touching.

Fifty-two percent of people from racial minorities said that

they considered non-consensual hugging to be sexual harassment,

compared with 39 percent of whites.

While most adults said they thought that it was sexual

harassment to send “pornographic pictures” to someone without

their consent, younger people appeared to be more permissive.

Eighty-three percent of millennials, or those adults born

after 1982, said it was sexual harassment, compared with 90

percent of gen-Xers (born 1965-1981) and 94 percent of baby

boomers (born 1946-1964.)

Experts in sexual harassment law said it is understandable

that women, especially women who are racial minorities, define

sexual harassment differently than men, given that many have

experienced it first-hand.

“Men do not cross the street to avoid people,” said Joanna

Grossman, a law professor at Southern Methodist University who

specializes in workplace equality. “Virtually all women do,

whether or not they’ve been attacked before. It’s part of

growing up in a group that’s been victimized for so long.”

Clear workplace standards would help everyone, including

those who are accused of sexual harassment, said Minna Kotkin,

director of the Brooklyn Law School Employment Law Clinic.

Kotkin, whose clinic provides legal help for people dealing

with sexual harassment in the workplace, said she recently

advised a man who said he was fired because he misunderstood

where the line had been set.

“He worked in retail, and this was a place where there was

sexual banter going around,” Kotkin said. “And one day he made a

comment about a co-worker’s breasts. And then later she claimed

that he grabbed her by the waist.”

“He got fired, and he was really surprised,” she said. “He

thought that conduct was part of their relationship ... But the

question is, maybe this woman tolerated this all along and then

finally had enough?”

The Reuters/Ipsos poll was conducted online in English

throughout the United States. It has a credibility interval, a

measure of accuracy, of 2 percentage points for the entire

sample. The credibility interval is higher for subsets based on

gender, age and race, as the sample size is reduced.

Reuters

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