How to motivate your child to start school on a positive note

Grade1 pupil Kgothatso Semela on his first day of school at Nelmapius Primary School. Picture: Oupa Mokoena/ANA

Grade1 pupil Kgothatso Semela on his first day of school at Nelmapius Primary School. Picture: Oupa Mokoena/ANA

Published Jan 16, 2024

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While the first day of school might be exciting for some children, it can be a very nerve-racking experience for others.

Therefore, it’s up to us as parents to motivate and encourage our kids to ease their anxieties and start the year on a positive note.

By employing practical strategies and incorporating their interests, you can help make the first day of school a memorable and enjoyable experience.

Motivate and encourage our children to ease their anxieties. Picture: Freepik

Here are some tips on how you can motivate your child on the first day of school.

Get them involved

Create excitement by involving your child in the preparations.

Discuss and plan the back-to-school shopping list together.

Allow your child to select their school supplies, backpack, and lunchbox.

Address fears and concerns

Talk openly with your child about any worries they may have regarding school. Listen attentively and validate their feelings.

Offer reassurance and emphasise that it's normal to feel anxious, but they're not alone.

Celebrate achievements and set goals

Highlight your child’s previous accomplishments and commend their efforts to boost their confidence.

Set realistic and achievable goals for the upcoming school year together.

Emphasise personal growth rather than solely focusing on academic achievements.

Encourage friendships

Talk positively about the potential friendships they may make during the school year.

Teach your child how to engage in conversations, listen actively, and show kindness to others.

Teach your child how to engage in conversations and show kindness to others. Picture: Freepik pressfoto

Pack a special surprise

Sneak in a handwritten note, an encouraging quote, or a small token of love to remind your child you're thinking of them during the day.

Include their favourite healthy snacks or a special treat to make their lunch extra special.

Organise a meet-up

Arrange play dates or meet-ups with classmates or friends before school starts.

Attend back-to-school events or orientations to help your child become familiar with the school environment.

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