Strong, silent types DO get the girl

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Copy of sa george clooney voice REUTERS Silent types who also have deep voices, such as actor George Clooney, were considered most attractive.

London - For decades, experts believed women flocked to silent types because of their aloof and mysterious nature – but new research suggests it’s because the trait is actually an ultimate sign of masculinity.

On average, women speak three times as many words each day than men and their brains are wired to recognise this trait.

When a woman meets a man who talks a lot, they consider them to be more feminine and less attractive, yet men who use shorter words and speak more concisely were seen as more attractive because they appeared more masculine.

Silent types who also have deep voices, such as Hollywood actor George Clooney, were considered the most attractive.

Canadian researchers studied which type of voices, words used and range of accents were considered most attractive to the respective sexes.

They found that people are naturally drawn to friends and colleagues with voices that sound familiar.

Copy of sa marilyn monroe voice 'Breathy' voices in women, typified by Marilyn Monroe, were seen as more attractive among men. .

People prefer those who have a similar accent, intonation and tone of voice to themselves, for example.

Men with deeper voices and women with slightly higher voices were thought to sound more attractive, because they suggest a bigger or smaller body.

Dr Molly Babel, from the University of British Columbia in Canada, said: “The voice is an amazingly flexible tool that we use to construct our identity.

“Very few things in our voices are immutable, so we felt our preferences had to be about more than a person’s shape and size.”

She recorded 30 volunteers’ voices and asked each to rate the others’ “attractiveness” on a scale of one to nine. Each participant was from western America, with similar accents.

Babel said: “We found that what is attractive to people is how much they sound like a typical male or a typical female from their own community.

“The people we assessed were all in the same dialect group, but they exhibited that dialect to different degrees.”

The participants had a strong preference for female voices that pronounced the “oo” vowel sound from a word like “goose” further forward in the mouth.

The sound is characteristic of Californian speech – in other American regions people pronounce the “oo” sound further back in the mouth.

“We seem to like people who sound like we sound, we like people who fit within what we know,” Babel said.

She also found that “breathy” voices in women – typified by Marilyn Monroe – were seen as more attractive.

The breathy tone, caused by younger and thinner vocal cords, implied youthfulness and health.

A creaky voice, suggesting a person has a cold, is tired or smokes, was seen as unattractive.

The participants preferred men who spoke with a shorter average word length and deeper voices.

But Babel said her findings did not mean that people were never attracted to those with different accents.

The linguist, whose work is published in the journal PLOS One, said: “Once you’re outside a certain range of familiarity, novel and exotic-sounding voices might become more attractive.

“We also have to keep in mind we find some accents preferable to others because of social stereotypes associated with them.” – Daily Mail

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