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Kuala, Lumpur - A group of Malaysian women launched an “Obedient Wife Club” on Saturday, urging members to be “whores in bed” and obey their husbands to curb social ills like divorce and domestic violence.

Islamic group Global Ikhwan held the club's inaugural meeting in Kuala Lumpur, giving women tips on how to keep their men satisfied and prevent them straying.

“A good wife is perceived to be prim and proper - you just take care of the children - but not much is emphasised on fulfilling sexual needs of the husband. If he needs sex, obey him,” Rohaya Mohamad, the club's vice-president told AFP.

Rohaya said 30 percent of the club members were in polygamous marriages while the rest were in monogamous relationships and that the club was open to non-Muslims.

“You must satisfy your husband. A good wife should be a whore in bed,” said 46-year-old doctor, whose husband has three other wives.

She said the club boasted 800 Malaysian members so far with another 200 from across the Middle East.

Over 1,000 guests and supporters turned up for the launch in a leafy suburb, held in conjunction with a mass wedding of ten couples, with the brides all members of the new club.

“If the wife is obedient, then the husband feels good and is entertained and this builds a closer relationship and greater love and no one strays,” said groom Mohamad Shurahbil Amran, 23.

His bride Umuhani Lokman Hakim, 19, dressed in a golden white Arabic wedding gown, was unforthcoming when asked why she joined the club and would only say: “It is the right thing to do to keep the family together.”

The club has come under criticism from Malaysian women's groups who say the onus on keeping a family together is being unfairly placed on women.

“With obedience comes submission, which may lead to domestic violence and marital rape,” Women's Aid Organisation head Ivy Josiah told AFP.

“We should really be forming equality in marriage clubs,” she added.

Women's rights group EMPOWER said the club was a step back for the progress of the equality movement.

“We cannot go back to caveman days where the man pulls the woman by the hair and takes her to the cave to have his way. We must recognise that women contribute a lot more than just being a sex toy,” the group's executive director Maria Chin Abdullah told AFP.

Polygamy is legal for Muslims, who make up more than 60 percent of Malaysia's population, allowing Muslim men to take up to four wives.

In 2010, a study by a Muslim activist group found men in polygamous relationships find it difficult to meet the needs of all their wives and children, and that the result is often unhappy and cash-strapped families. - Sapa-AFP

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zane, wrote

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10:10am on 6 June 2011
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this is a good way to make sure a husband does not look elsewhere for some action, have sex once a day

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boertjie, wrote

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06:57am on 6 June 2011
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I agree with you "lekka"....i want a Malaysian wife too!! any left for me?

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lekka, wrote

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08:13pm on 5 June 2011
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I want a Malaysian wife ...!! and I want her now !!

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Mthondosheshayo, wrote

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06:19pm on 5 June 2011
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Great idea. A woman must know that her job is to satisfy her husband. this equality nonsense will never work here in Africa. Those who are complaining are free to go to Europe. Here a wife must service her husband according to his demands. Thats all.

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Hello Baby, wrote

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04:39pm on 5 June 2011
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Does that mean she charges you?

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Gee, wrote

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03:35pm on 5 June 2011
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I agree...WIFE = Washing, Ironing, F@#%$^g, Etc. No seriously, this is crap, its like the dark ages all over again! Only the mozzies could think of this.

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Anonymous, wrote

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11:17am on 5 June 2011
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This is bad news for men, whores are useless in bed, they just want a man's money

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Mishka, wrote

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06:50am on 5 June 2011
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I completely agree. Keep your man happy in the bedroom, lounge, garage, pool, bathroom, hallway.......... And expect the same in return. If he's useless, tell him, if he's doing it wrong, tell him, and if he doesn't learn, do what the guys think is their right to do, and go out and find a man who can satisfy you! 100% Liberalism and Equality!

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Anonymous, wrote

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06:48am on 5 June 2011
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everyone who has commented below, 'i like!!!!' is obviously an ignorant male who has no respect for his girlfriendwife. you disgust me.

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umfann, wrote

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05:51am on 5 June 2011
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3 wives i will join any religion for that twooo hehehe so what if the wife sees my comments

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Michael, wrote

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10:55pm on 4 June 2011
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I suppose Zuma is taking notes...

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champagne, wrote

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10:39pm on 4 June 2011
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Yeah lets all men have multiple wives and lots and lots of children.... and watch them all die of filth and hunger. It is about time ALL men realised that the world does not revolve around them and their d!ck. Catch up with 2011 and stop being cavemen

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Anonymous, wrote

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09:37pm on 4 June 2011
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'A good wife should be a whore in bed'waawuu I wonder what that mean

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faye, wrote

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08:27pm on 4 June 2011
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There are strict conditions for polygamy in Islam. If a man cannot afford more than one wife then he is not allowed to have more than one wife. Also, it was prescribed at a time of war when many women had lost their husbands and subsequently needed security

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Anonymous, wrote

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07:10pm on 4 June 2011
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This is another stupid idea from Malaysia-the country that ANC adopted the BEE from!!

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Aaron, wrote

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06:00pm on 4 June 2011
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I do like???????????????

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Anton, wrote

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05:01pm on 4 June 2011
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I also like !!!! ( I just hope my wife does not read my comment, its far too cold to sleep in the park ! )

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Kickass, wrote

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04:23pm on 4 June 2011
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I like!!!!!!!!!!

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