Even though it might seem taboo, many women are flocking to somewhat discreet sites. Picture: Pixabay

Studies have shown that couples who watch online porn together think it can help them explore their sexuality and adds “spice” to their love life.

And it's not just men watching porn. Even though it might seem taboo, many women are flocking to somewhat discreet sites. But with the proliferation of online porn comes the quagmire of "what am I in the mood for" and "I'm not into hardcore stuff"? 

Many females tend to flock to "couples porn" or the softer variety.

If you are new to the world of online porn, we've gone in search of under the radar porn sites that have the female viewer in mind.

graciebaby.wordpress.com

According to the website, Dark Gracie is an acclaimed photographer, sex author, and deviant extraordinaire, who first began writing explitica in 2005. Today her work is published in Erotica Diaries, regularly featured on Fleshbot, reviewed by Playboy and appeared in Cosmopolitan Australia. Marie Claire refers to it as an erotic blog, so instead of purchasing a Mills & Boon undercover, just visit her blog.

vod.hotmoviesforher.com

Hot Movies For Her is the go-to place for films distributed by mainstream studios. You can either pay per minute or enjoy a free 20-minute trial.

ifeelmyself.com

This one is dedicated to the female orgasm. "In its focus on male pleasure, mainstream pornography marginalises the female experience and often deprives it of its dignity. We want to do our part to restore the balance by creating images of female sexuality that are constructive, honest, and personal," I Feel Myself says on its website.

literotica.com

A database of hundreds of free erotica stories, Fifty Shades of Grey pales in comparison to this. Or, you could even submit your own piece if you're keen on sharing your fantasies with others.

adultdvdtalk.com

Marie Claire and Allure both previously mentioned this website. It has over 15 000 reviews on 48 types of porn, and you can even submit your own critiques. There are also interviews and podcasts with porn stars and directors.